I am the healthy wife of a food addict. His refusal to get in control is wrecking our marriage. I live in constant fear of being a single mother because of his fat issues. He was doing great for awhile after his lap band surgery, but then he quit seeing his nutritionist and he dropped out of the support group. Now he has put on 30+ pounds in less than 2 months. I love him very much, and it drives me nuts that he can't love himself - and his daughter and wife - enough to get in control and get rid of the fat. Where can I get help? Thanks