God bless him, he is a rock for me as a gratefully recovering food addict. But (and there is a but!), he has been trying to give me more "variety" and showing up with foods that are not on the food plan. He feels it's OK to bring them home because they're not "flour and sugar". I know he means well, he is happy that I am losing weight and getting healthier, and I think he stills see food as a way to reward me for my good efforts.
Sigh.... what should I do?